Let me say right up front….I am not a theologian. I don’t have the smarts to even enter the ring with those who are. But…It seems to me that a lot of people hold to a theology of God that is not compatible with suffering. It is not compatible with the wounds and pain we receive in this life. They may not verbalize such a belief and even espouse a different belief about God but when crisis comes, what they thought they believed about God comes into question. For pain has a way of stripping away all our illusions of God. When everything starts to fall apart, often so does our sense of reality. God is not who we thought he was. But the problem isn’t God, it’s our theology of him.
For if we hold to the belief that God must bend to our claim of achieving our cherished dreams, suffering is seen as a betrayal. At worst, it calls God’s honor and intent toward us into question. If we believe God’s promises are to be secured for our prosperity, suffering has to be denied. If our faith is only a belief system it only takes one night of pain to realize there is no comfort or security when suffering that reeks havoc in our soul.
Too often our only thought in suffering is how we can get out of it, or how we can manipulate God to do something about it, instead of turning to the God who meet us, stays with us and transforms us through the pain.
I have prayed with many people for physical healing because I believe God still miraculously heals. I have witnessed miraculous healings and encouraged those who are sick to ask others to pray with them for their healing. Too often, however, people are so intent on receiving physical healing, they miss wholeness God offers in the midst of their pain. They miss the deep contentment, confidence and joy he wants to bring into their daily existence. God wants to be our healer but he want to be so much more. If we allow it to, pain can become a place where we encounter God and find it is our soul that comes alive.
Barbara Brown Taylor articulates this well: “For those willing to stay awake, pain remains a reliable altar in the world, a place to discover that a life can be as full of meaning as it is of hurt.”